“我是把你当做男孩养的”。
我是独生子女，我爸爸经常对我说他的教育理念是如何开明。比如这句“把你当男孩养”，事实上只不过是没有要二胎，又支持我读书而已。本质上还是很经典的观念，认为女孩子不要太累了，应该找个清闲工作然后嫁人生子才是好的。话里说着所谓的“当男孩养”，实际上还是把每一个社会加诸于女孩的枷锁套在了我身上。
——momo
"I raise you as a boy."
I was the only child of our family, and my father often told me how enlightened his philosophy of education was. However, this phrase "raise you as a boy" is in fact nothing more than not having a second child and supporting my education. In essence, it is still a classic concept that girls should not be too tired and should find an easy job and then get married and have children. The so-called "raise you as a boy” is, in reality, the shackles that every society imposes on girls, which are still placed on me.
——momo
