小时候做过心脏手术所以胸口正中间有一道二十多厘米的疤痕。我爸妈劝我去美容医院做去疤痕手术，我个人还蛮喜欢这个疤痕的所以拒绝了。他们觉得我疯了，说我还要恋爱结婚，这个疤被男方看了不好。
有一个小两岁的弟弟，是在计划生育年代出生的。我问我妈如果我是男孩是不是就没有弟弟了，我妈支支吾吾打哈哈说“一男一女才能凑出一个‘好’字。”
——sappho
I had a heart surgery when I was a kid so I have a scar of more than 20 cm in the middle of my chest. My parents persuaded me to go to a cosmetic hospital for scar removal surgery, but I personally liked the scar so I refused to do so. They thought I was crazy and said I will be into a relationship and get married in the future, then this scar was not good for the man to see.
I have a younger brother who is two years younger and was born during the one child policy era. I once asked my mother, if I were a boy, would my brother not have been born? My mother stammered and pretended to joke by saying "a boy and a girl make up the word 'good' (好)’.
——sappho
