初中老师做性教育科普，叫在场的女生不要随便和男的做，然后举了她身边一个女性朋友因为第一次没和那个朋友的老公做，结婚后被家暴了。然后拿这个来叫在场女同学不要随便和男的做，还说要是这个女的第一次和她老公的话后面就不会被家暴会过得很幸福?！
虽然大清亡了但是我初中听到的就是这样的东西，把我恶心坏了。
——陈清清
When doing sex education, my middle school teacher told that the girls in the class could not casually have sex with men. Then, she gave an example of a female friend of hers, who was no longer a virgin when she had sex with her husband for the first time, that’s why her friend experience domestic violence after getting married. And then take this to call the female students present do not just do with the male, but also said that if the woman's first time and her husband, then the back will not be domestic violence will be very happy?!
Although the Qing Dynasty died, this was what I heard in the middle school, disgusted me badly.
——Chen Qingqing
