大学被一个男生持之以恒地骚扰四个月，拉黑删除所有社交平台之后，还是会通过一系列方式在我面前刷存在感。反映给辅导员后，他本来挺重视的，但问了一句，对方是不是喜欢你，我说是。导员关注重点便成了我是不是说过什么不合时宜的话让对方误会了。在我拿出一系列证据证明我从头到尾都没有怎么搭理过那个男生，仅仅只是刚开始回答了几个学业上的问题后，导员感慨了一句，那他还挺痴情的。我发现，这个问题在他们那里突然感觉就不严重了。
我室友知道那个男生是个怎么样的人，也知道我不可能对那个男生说过不合适的话。但她一直说，其实你应该想一下，为什么只有你会遭遇这样的事呢。
我知道她是好心，或者说所有人都是好心，可是为什么我就非得有错呢？直到现在那个男生还在刷存在感，每天通过一切知道的平台视奸我，可我已经不知道求助谁了。
——三三
In college, I was persistently harassed by a guy for four months. After I blacked out and deleted all contact with him on social media platforms, he would still brush his presence in front of me in a series of ways. When I told my advisor about this, he was quite concerned at the beginning. But after asking if the boy was into me and I answered "yes", his focus then turned to whether I had said anything inappropriate that make the guy misunderstand. After I presented a series of evidence proving that I hadn't paid much attention to the guy from the beginning to the end and had only just answered a few academic questions for him, my advisor sighed, "He's pretty obsessed then." Then I realized that the issue suddenly didn't seem serious to them.
My roommate knew what the guy was like and knew that I couldn't have said anything inappropriate to the guy. But she kept saying, actually, you should think about why you're the only one who would suffer something like this.
I know she had good intentions, or everyone has good intentions, but why do I have to be at fault? Until now that boy is still brushing up his presence and visually “raping” me every day through every platform he knows, but I don't know who to ask for help anymore.
——San San
