身边的男男女女会不断劝一个女孩过看似更加舒适容易的生活。
上学的时候，老师说，女生就是学不好理科。
选工作的时候，我父母说，如果你是男生可以出去闯荡，但是你是女生，求安稳就可以了。
工作后，看我一直不愿意谈恋爱结婚生子，我妈开玩笑说，早知道不让你读书了，不读书现在已经嫁人了。
——巨巨巨巨桔子
People (both men and women) around always constantly advise a girl to live a seemingly more comfortable and easy life.
When I was in school, my teacher said that girls just couldn’t learn science well.
When I was choosing the job, my parents said, if you were a boy you can go out and explore. But you are a girl, you’d better seek for stability.
When I started to work, knowing that I have been reluctant to start a relationship, get married, and have children, my mother joked, "If I had known (this), I would not have let you study, if you don’t study you might have already married someone".
——Giant Giant Giant Orange
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