故事发生在一个下午，我妈找来了两个家政人员来我家打扫房间。
两个家政全是女性，一个年轻一些，有两个女儿，称为a；另一个年长一些，有成家的女儿和儿子，称为b。
我妈和她们一起收拾房间，边做边聊天。
刚开始聊孩子：
b：我儿媳妇不行，太厉害了（大概这个意思的话）
我妈：那你现在开始可得多给你闺女点钱，女生知道感恩，至少以后还能给你养老
当时我在房间，听到这话毛骨悚然，只觉得我妈不只是替别人算计，还把我算计了进去。我会不会也是那个“给点好处就懂得回报”的女儿呢。
后来聊到了房子：
a：我合计着把我家那套房子卖了，回头买两个小平米，俩女儿得一人一套，不能偏心不是
我妈：要我说你不如卖了换个大平米，这样住着舒服。俩闺女以后一人给个十几万就够了
这段对话无疑印证了我之前的设想，再加上我发现我妈这么多年并没有给我存钱的动作，而是一昧扩大自己的店面，看起来根本没准备给我买房的样子，而我却在很多年前就和她说过我以后需要她的帮助来买房。这让我顿时觉得非常凄凉。
秉持着不让我妈造孽毁掉两个女生幸福未来的原则，我企图说服她女生也需要房子这件事。
我：那女生也需要房子啊，人家大城市的女生结婚也是要有房子的
我妈：那是大城市，小地方哪儿有那么多钱给俩孩子买房
我：那凭啥男的就有女的就没有？
我妈：男的以后要娶媳妇，没房子哪个女的跟他结婚？女的又不娶媳妇，有富裕钱就买没富裕钱就不买。难不成你以后还让我累死累活给你陪嫁一套房啊？！（她当时已经生气了）
我：我可没说
当时不想和她争论什么，我没有经济来源，我还需要努力从她那儿得到我想要的，我不能忤逆她。但我深刻地意识到，她口口声声说的最爱我，我是她最重要的人，也是局限在“我是女儿”这个高度之内的最爱，如果我是儿子，爱的上限会更高。或许我永远比不过平行时空里她那不存在的好儿子，但无所谓，女人也可以争取来很多。
——XM
The story takes place one afternoon when my mother got two housekeepers to come to our house to clean the house.
The two housekeepers were all women, one younger with two daughters, called a, and the other older with a family of daughters and sons, called b.
My mother and they cleaned the room together, chatting as they did so.
At the beginning of the conversation about children.
b: my daughter-in-law can't do it, she's too good (that's probably what it means)
My mother: that you can now start to give your daughter more money, girls know gratitude, at least in the future can also give you old age
I was in the room and was horrified to hear this, but I felt that my mother was not only counting for others, but also counting me in. I'm not sure if I'll be the same daughter who knows how to give something back.
Then we talked about the house.
A: I'm thinking of selling my house, and then buying two small square meters, two daughters have to have one set, not to be biased.
I think you should sell it for a large square meter, so that you can live comfortably. The two daughters will give a hundred thousand or so each in the future is enough
This conversation undoubtedly confirmed my previous assumptions, plus I found that my mother did not save me money for so many years, but to expand their own store, it seems that they are not ready to buy me a house, but I told her many years ago that I need her help to buy a house in the future. This made me feel very miserable all of a sudden.
In the principle of not letting my mom create a sin to ruin the happy future of the two girls, I attempted to convince her that girls also need a house for this matter.
I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to get a good deal on this.
The actual fact is that you can find a lot of money to buy a house for two children in a small place.
The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a lot of money to buy a house.
My mother: the man will have to marry a daughter-in-law, no house which woman married him? The woman is not married to a daughter-in-law, there is rich money to buy no rich money to buy. The actual fact is that you're going to be able to make me work hard to give you a suite in the future. (She was already angry)
I: I did not say
I didn't want to argue with her at that time, I didn't have the financial resources, I still need to work hard to get what I want from her, I can't disobey her. But I was acutely aware that I was her most important person, the one she claimed to love the most, and that it was limited to the height of "I am a daughter", and if I were a son, the upper limit of love would be even higher. Perhaps I will never be able to compete with her non-existent good son in parallel time and space, but it doesn't matter, women can also fight for a lot.
——XM
两个家政全是女性，一个年轻一些，有两个女儿，称为a；另一个年长一些，有成家的女儿和儿子，称为b。
我妈和她们一起收拾房间，边做边聊天。
刚开始聊孩子：
b：我儿媳妇不行，太厉害了（大概这个意思的话）
我妈：那你现在开始可得多给你闺女点钱，女生知道感恩，至少以后还能给你养老
当时我在房间，听到这话毛骨悚然，只觉得我妈不只是替别人算计，还把我算计了进去。我会不会也是那个“给点好处就懂得回报”的女儿呢。
后来聊到了房子：
a：我合计着把我家那套房子卖了，回头买两个小平米，俩女儿得一人一套，不能偏心不是
我妈：要我说你不如卖了换个大平米，这样住着舒服。俩闺女以后一人给个十几万就够了
这段对话无疑印证了我之前的设想，再加上我发现我妈这么多年并没有给我存钱的动作，而是一昧扩大自己的店面，看起来根本没准备给我买房的样子，而我却在很多年前就和她说过我以后需要她的帮助来买房。这让我顿时觉得非常凄凉。
秉持着不让我妈造孽毁掉两个女生幸福未来的原则，我企图说服她女生也需要房子这件事。
我：那女生也需要房子啊，人家大城市的女生结婚也是要有房子的
我妈：那是大城市，小地方哪儿有那么多钱给俩孩子买房
我：那凭啥男的就有女的就没有？
我妈：男的以后要娶媳妇，没房子哪个女的跟他结婚？女的又不娶媳妇，有富裕钱就买没富裕钱就不买。难不成你以后还让我累死累活给你陪嫁一套房啊？！（她当时已经生气了）
我：我可没说
当时不想和她争论什么，我没有经济来源，我还需要努力从她那儿得到我想要的，我不能忤逆她。但我深刻地意识到，她口口声声说的最爱我，我是她最重要的人，也是局限在“我是女儿”这个高度之内的最爱，如果我是儿子，爱的上限会更高。或许我永远比不过平行时空里她那不存在的好儿子，但无所谓，女人也可以争取来很多。
——XM
The story takes place one afternoon when my mother got two housekeepers to come to our house to clean the house.
The two housekeepers were all women, one younger with two daughters, called a, and the other older with a family of daughters and sons, called b.
My mother and they cleaned the room together, chatting as they did so.
At the beginning of the conversation about children.
b: my daughter-in-law can't do it, she's too good (that's probably what it means)
My mother: that you can now start to give your daughter more money, girls know gratitude, at least in the future can also give you old age
I was in the room and was horrified to hear this, but I felt that my mother was not only counting for others, but also counting me in. I'm not sure if I'll be the same daughter who knows how to give something back.
Then we talked about the house.
A: I'm thinking of selling my house, and then buying two small square meters, two daughters have to have one set, not to be biased.
I think you should sell it for a large square meter, so that you can live comfortably. The two daughters will give a hundred thousand or so each in the future is enough
This conversation undoubtedly confirmed my previous assumptions, plus I found that my mother did not save me money for so many years, but to expand their own store, it seems that they are not ready to buy me a house, but I told her many years ago that I need her help to buy a house in the future. This made me feel very miserable all of a sudden.
In the principle of not letting my mom create a sin to ruin the happy future of the two girls, I attempted to convince her that girls also need a house for this matter.
I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to get a good deal on this.
The actual fact is that you can find a lot of money to buy a house for two children in a small place.
The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a lot of money to buy a house.
My mother: the man will have to marry a daughter-in-law, no house which woman married him? The woman is not married to a daughter-in-law, there is rich money to buy no rich money to buy. The actual fact is that you're going to be able to make me work hard to give you a suite in the future. (She was already angry)
I: I did not say
I didn't want to argue with her at that time, I didn't have the financial resources, I still need to work hard to get what I want from her, I can't disobey her. But I was acutely aware that I was her most important person, the one she claimed to love the most, and that it was limited to the height of "I am a daughter", and if I were a son, the upper limit of love would be even higher. Perhaps I will never be able to compete with her non-existent good son in parallel time and space, but it doesn't matter, women can also fight for a lot.
——XM
