某天体育课，班里一个和我并不熟悉，性格活泼的大学同学（女性）站在我旁边，尬聊几句之后她似乎摸清了我社恐的个性，然后兴奋地对我说：“我想把你介绍给我朋友（男性），因为你看起来很好驾驭。”这件事之后我见到她总觉得怵怵的，习惯躲远，虽然自己什么也没做错。工作之后才和这句话，和自己和解了。
女性的自我贬化比男性贬化女性更让人虎躯一震。
——斥鴳
One day in a PE class, an outgoing college classmate (female) I was unfamiliar with stood next to me. After a few words of awkward conversation, she seemed to have figured out my socially fearful personality and then excitedly said to me, "I want to introduce you to my friend (male) because you seem very manageable." After this incident I always felt scared when I saw her and used to hide away, although I did nothing wrong. It was only after working that I reconciled myself with her words.
Women's self-deprecation is more shocking than men's deprecation of women.
