印象最深的言语暴力是中学的时候，我和小姐妹都属于学习比较努力的，结果被一个男生说“你们这么努力有什么用，再努力也不如人家嫁得好”。这话又典又封闭，这么多年都记得。
——蜉蝣
The most impressive verbal sexism to me happened in the middle school, my besties and I were quite hard-working. However, a boy said to us, "What's the point of studying so hard? No matter how hard-working you are, You can't even compare to those who married a wealthy man. These words were so mansplaining and patriarchal that I remember them for years.
——Fu You
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